Sometimes it is hard to let go of somebody that you have loved for a long time. The possibilities are, you bounce back once, twice and you realize that you have lost count of the times you get back with your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. Most of the time you ask your self if you deserve him or her. Unfortunately, the uncertainty that is involved in the process results from insecurity. Why? Because you feel helpless without that person. True that it maybe love, but that feeling is really an issue of the self. If you value yourself, you have to learn to let go. You have your reasons for breaking up and you have to stick to them.

You have to ask yourself if he or she is worth it, or perhaps if you deserve better.

The point is you have to decide to let you, and then hold on to that. It’s hard, but think about self-respect and dignity. Let go, just let go.

So to break the cycle of breaking up over and over again, here’s what you should do:

1. DECIDE to let go. Love is all around. It has never been coming from only one person. Destiny is not applicable at all times.

2. Hold on the reasons why you break up. There’s a million of them, perhaps reasonable and not. Always remind yourself of them.

3. Say a firm NO. Do not succumb to another chance. Because by now, it’s the nth chance you have given him or her. Stop humiliating yourself.

It’s better to cry a pond now, than cry a big river later on. Well, that if you decide to stay and marry your ex. Sometimes love takes its toll and you should be prepared somehow. Stand fast and move on.

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Posted on May 28th, 2008 by Catarina
Filed under: love and relationships, tips and advices