Questions You Want to Ask But are Afraid to Know the Answer
Have you ever had a time where you were itching to ask something, but you knew deep inside the answer could lead to trouble? Or you really wouldn’t want to know the answer, but you just had to ask?
I was on a way to a doctor’s appointment when it occurred to me, one of the biggest questions I had to ask was if I was sick(or what disease I had yikes), and somehow, did I want to know the answer? Not really. Whether it was negative or positive, even if it did cost my life, or killed me (curiosity killed the cat!).
I’ve come up with questions we want to ask but we don’t really want to know the answer:
How am I going to die? When am I going to die? Will I die before my partner does?
Who doesn’t want to know? And yet we know if we are made aware of the answer, it can possibly alter the way the future is going turn out.
Who does my mom love best? Me or my sibling?
Whether you were loved by your mother or your father in the same way as your sibling, there must be a little voice inside you who’d like to ask this to your parents - if only they could answer as truthfully as possible.
Has my partner ever cheated on me?
So let’s imagine you in a loving, understanding relationship. Although you’ve been with him/her for the longest time, admit it, you’re thinking in that brain of yours if the thought of cheating on you has ever occurred to him. You know, you don’t really have to ask as men are biologically predisposed to cheat.
Is there a ghost beside me?
We were on a beach holiday off Mexico getting some good rubbing from the masseuse; he left for a while and during that in between moment, the hair on my back stood on its end and I felt cold air on my neck - and there wasn’t any possible source. If I were with someone who could see or communicate with ghosts, I really don’t know whether I’d ask or not.
What the heck did I just eat!?!?!
During out of town trips, don’t you feel like asking this especially when they just keep shoving plates in front of you and you have no choice but to agree (if you don’t, it could cause some misunderstanding between you and your host). If you were in China or Thailand, would you want to ask this?
Other questions:
Do I have AIDS?
Do I have feelings for the same gender?
Did she/he enjoy IT? (arrrg torture!)
Who’s going to win this year’s elections?!
So many questions you can ask but really, doesn’t it give you palpitations just waiting for the answer? I nearly fainted during a check up at the health clinic just recently. Yes, I asked, and what made it scarier was the health officer heaving a sigh - now that I think about it probably a sigh of relief. But I was rattled senseless.
Getting enough strength to ask is a big deal in itself, however when it comes to answer, we maybe to weak to deal with the truth it can provide.
What other questions can you think of that you wouldn’t have the strength to know the answer? Send in your thoughts.
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Posted on July 8th, 2008 by Catarina
Filed under: tips and advices
“But new research suggests that women are just as likely to cheat as their male counterparts, if not more so. In her 2006 book “Women’s Infidelity: Living in Limbo,” Michelle Langley offers ten years of research for her premise that women do cheat as much as men.”
I´m thinking in: would you marry me?
Are any of the paranoid/schizophrenic people actually right?
@linda - good one! that got me thinking…
@ricardo - hahaha
@Anoncheatingmale - hmmm that is something new.. lemme tinker with that idea a bit…